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God's ideal is lifelong marriage ('God hates divorce' - Malachi 2:16). Jesus permitted divorce for sexual immorality (Matthew 19:9), and Paul added abandonment by an unbeliever (1 Corinthians 7:15). While divorce isn't unforgivable, God calls believers to reconciliation when possible.
Why this answer? It starts with Matthew 19:8-9, then cross-checks Malachi 2:16 and 1 Corinthians 7:10-15 so the summary stays anchored in Scripture.
This answer explains what the Bible says about divorce by connecting Matthew 19:8-9, covenant marriage, reconciliation where possible, abandonment, mercy, and forgiveness.
“Because of your hardness of heart Moses allowed you to divorce your wives... whoever divorces his wife, except for sexual immorality, and marries another, commits adultery.”
- Matthew 19:8-9
The Bible presents marriage as a covenant between one man and one woman, instituted by God in Genesis 2. Marriage reflects Christ's relationship with the church (Ephesians 5). Husbands are called to sacrificial love, wives to respectful partnership. Marriage is honorable, the bed undefiled (Hebrews 13:4).
Forgiveness is releasing someone from the debt of their offense. God forgives our sins through Christ's sacrifice—not counting them against us (2 Corinthians 5:19). We're called to forgive others as God forgave us. Forgiveness doesn't excuse wrong but releases bitterness and trusts God for justice.
Biblical hope isn't wishful thinking but confident expectation based on God's promises. Romans 15:13 calls God the 'God of hope.' Our hope is anchored in Christ's resurrection (1 Peter 1:3) and His return. This hope doesn't disappoint because God's love is poured into our hearts (Romans 5:5).
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Answers are informed by Scripture and trusted theologians including Matthew Henry, John Calvin, and John Wesley. Always verify with Scripture and consult your local church for pastoral guidance.