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What does 'honor your father and mother' mean?A Scripture-grounded answer about honor your father and mother bible verse

"Honor your father and mother" is the fifth commandment (Exodus 20:12) and the first commandment with a promise—long life in the land. It means to respect, value, care for, and obey (as children) your parents. It extends beyond childhood to include caring for aging parents. Jesus reaffirmed it and condemned those who neglected this duty.

Understanding Honor Your Father and Mother Bible Verse

The command to honor your father and mother appears as the fifth commandment in Exodus 20:12 and is repeated throughout Scripture. Paul highlights in Ephesians 6:2-3 that it is the first commandment with a promise—that it may go well with you and you may live long. The Hebrew word for honor (kabed) means to give weight or value to someone. For children, this includes obedience (Ephesians 6:1 says obey your parents in the Lord). For adults, it extends to respect, gratitude, and caring for aging parents. Jesus took this commandment seriously—in Mark 7:10-13 He condemned the Pharisees for creating a loophole (Corban) that let people avoid financial responsibility for their parents under the guise of religious devotion. Proverbs 23:22 says to listen to your father and not despise your mother when she is old. This does not mean tolerating abuse or obeying commands that contradict God's word, since ultimate allegiance belongs to God. But it establishes the family as a sacred institution where children learn to honor authority, beginning with their parents.

Key Scripture

“'Honor your father and mother' (this is the first commandment with a promise), 'that it may go well with you and that you may live long in the land.'”

- Ephesians 6:2-3

Related Scripture References

  • Exodus 20:12
  • Proverbs 23:22
  • Mark 7:10-13

Key Biblical Concepts

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